Saturday, 11 February 2017

Learning Languages



I was bilingual before I started school. My parents spoke both Welsh and English in our home in Coventry. My mother was asked by my teacher not to speak Welsh to me, as it would hamper my education (actually, when this bit of advice was given it did reflect the state of research at the time - longitudinal studies were to show that any initial disadvantages of being bilingual were overtaken by massive and long term advantages around the age of seven and beyond. Sadly these appeared after the bad advice was given - and acted upon). Yet, half a century later - I still can recognise some Welsh words &  even use some.

You might think that this early upbringing in a bilingual home might help me to learn languages. It hasn't. Later on I did try to relearn Welsh - but didn't do very well. I've also spent 45 years (on and off) trying to learn French. It hasn't been a great success - until recently.

So why has it been so difficult? I think my memories of learning French at school may hold some clues. I remember hours of writing out - again and again - verb tables. Yet I still lack confidence (and ability) in recalling the present tense of verbs, let alone other tenses. I certainly did not enjoy learning French (and it didn't help that my French teacher and I had a major personality clash). I was glad to give up 'French' after passing my O Level (which did require extra lessons from a friend of the family).

Then, at a holiday show in Northampton, we won a coach trip and weekend in Paris. I thought I'd better learn a few useful phrases - and, to my immense surprise, actually got hooked on French and France. While the children were young we spent many happy holidays in France. I developed my reading skills (my idea of paradise is reading Le Monde whilst sitting in warm sunshine slowly drinking a glass of red wine) and can ask for things in shops - but that isn't enough.

I feel that I have made great progress in the last couple of years. In this blog, I'm going to share my experience of what I have found useful. I'd welcome your comments and experiences.

4 comments:

  1. Hi
    I am French Living in UK for 20 years.
    I just wanted to relate a bit my experience in learning languages.
    I think the best time to learn languages is when you are young. I regret now that I do not speak Portuguese when I had the easy opportunity to do it. My parents are Portuguese and they used to speak to us in French and Portuguese. But when you are young and you don't want to speak another language than your native language what else can you do? So my parents never forced us- my brother my sis and I- to speak Portuguese . They said fine you are in France. You don't have to speak Portuguese.
    But even now they speak to us in French and Portuguese and I am proud to understand this language even if I can't speak it.
    I know I can go to Portugal an understand it. It is so good to understand a foreign language .
    And I can speak Italian I learned at uni so I can manage to get by with my French English and Italian skills.
    Yes it would have been easy for me to learn Portuguese ....
    Just learn a language whenever you want to.
    I run Lingo Mix
    With my social language workshops to help people practise their favorite languages in a social environment.
    Marie

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  2. Living in UK for 10 years sorry

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  3. Living in UK for 10 years sorry

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  4. Hi
    I am French Living in UK for 20 years.
    I just wanted to relate a bit my experience in learning languages.
    I think the best time to learn languages is when you are young. I regret now that I do not speak Portuguese when I had the easy opportunity to do it. My parents are Portuguese and they used to speak to us in French and Portuguese. But when you are young and you don't want to speak another language than your native language what else can you do? So my parents never forced us- my brother my sis and I- to speak Portuguese . They said fine you are in France. You don't have to speak Portuguese.
    But even now they speak to us in French and Portuguese and I am proud to understand this language even if I can't speak it.
    I know I can go to Portugal an understand it. It is so good to understand a foreign language .
    And I can speak Italian I learned at uni so I can manage to get by with my French English and Italian skills.
    Yes it would have been easy for me to learn Portuguese ....
    Just learn a language whenever you want to.
    I run Lingo Mix
    With my social language workshops to help people practise their favorite languages in a social environment.
    Marie

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